ectopic pregnancy weight loss
Its been a whirlwind of emotions over the last week. My father in law has suffered from Alzheimers for the 5-8 years, but was recently diagnosed with GI cancer. He lost his battle a few days ago and our family has been dealing with not only his death, but the flood of emotions and reflection that comes when dealing with the loss of a loved one. No matter how much you prepare for a death, it always seems to be a surprise when it happens. Its hard not to look at your own mortaility when you see someone move to the other side. I do believe in an afterlife which certainly does help the process.
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I am no stranger to death. I lost my own father in my early 20s and most of my grandparents died when I was a child. When I was trying to conceive, I went through 6 horrible miscarriages and I began to associate getting pregnant with what I thought was the inevitable loss of my baby. You deal with a lot of thoughts of death and even to this day, I worry unnecessarily about something happening to my daughter. You just cant go through that much trauma without some long-term consequences.Reflecting on my father-in-laws life, you see how our time here is just a "blink of an eye" (in the words of Deepok Chopra). Time marches on and you really do need to make the most of it. If you are struggling with infertility, I know there is a temptation to put your life on hold while you focus every ounce of energy on getting pregnant. During the years I was trying to conceive, I tried to focus my attention on things I enjoyed. I did quite a bit of decorative painting in my house and my sisters house and I gathered quite a bit of information on my family tree and my husbands family tree. Wow, did that information come in handy after my father-in-law passed away. We went back through his family tree for his memorial service. Not only did I gather information about the family tree, I also wrote to distant relatives to gather as many pictures to put names with faces. My daughter loves looking at those pictures and Im glad I made the effort since many relatives have since died.
Remember, you only have one life, you need to live every day as if it is your last. Trying to conceive is just one piece of your life right now...be sure to make every day worthwhile with no regrets.
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| My father in law holding my daughter as a newborn |
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